Many teens act out as a sign of coping to situations; and our topic today is based on the arguments of when a parent, teen, friend or anyone does something to where forgiveness comes to the solution.
I believe that most teens have the trait of being stubborn and that makes it harder for forgiveness to be easy; but a key aspect to mending a relationship with forgiveness is patience.
Why are all the people in this world nowadays most likely to have a stubborn trait? Well, we have to realize that teens, (people in general) will not always be stubborn, but the events that occur is what triggers it. The reasoning for this behavior may be for a reward-seeking solution, or a pain-avoiding trauma situation; finding out the reasoning for their stubbornness is a step closer to figuring out forgiveness.
Sometimes, teens or people want you to show you care, but not to the point where you feel obligated or you have to. Being mellow about it is a good way to show you care, but not being needy about it like you absolutely need to fix problems so quickly; but in certain situation, compromising is a way to know where eachother is at in their opinions but again, thats where stubbornness comes in.
The reason I say “nowadays” is because there have been more and more diagnoses over these years, decades and centuries and in order to adapt or survive in this world. Realizing our own personal traits can make it to where we could help ourselves and take action so that there is some type of control whether it’s medicine, therapy, or any other prevention.
So basically, with teens, theres no telling how to do or receive forgiveness because in most cases, being stubborn is acquit to how this world works. My advice would just be to give it time, have patience; and maybe even try to win him or her over again by maybe buying them their favorite food, or just doing the little things that you know matter to them or show that you take pride in caring for them. Being there for them to when they’re in need to just vent or need a shoulder to cry on is a necessity that you could show to; it doesn’t even have to be because of forgivenes, just being a good friend creates that close relationship. Thank you
- T33N #1
INTIMATION:
In no way is my opinion directed at attacking parents and/or other teens; I’m just explaining my point of view
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